Spaces

One of my favourite D/s topics to discuss and read about is subspace and domspace. I’m interested in how this is experienced by others, what is going through their mind, their body in the moments leading up to, during and after space. I think it’s important as a Dom/me to have this understanding and knowledge. …

Can a Domme have little space?

Yes. End of blog. Just kidding. Some recent experiences have me reading about Dom/mes who enjoy spending time in little space. Or littles who like to dominate at times. As you can see Here how people experience this is so specific to the individual, that it is difficult to make generalizations. Some switch easily between spaces …

The day he said “no”

I’m feeling somewhat resentful of the sub hub. It’s a good thing he is working exorbitant amounts of overtime these days. He probably doesn’t realize how much this distance is protecting him right now. Why am I feeling resentful? Because a few days ago the sub hub took something away from me. I asked him …

Do I miss subspace?

For the record, it’s been quite awhile since I’ve experienced subspace. Probably in the bedroom the last time was over two weeks ago. As a mindset outside, I cannot even recall. So do I miss it? During our scene this past Saturday, there were a couple of times I felt the pull towards subspace. I …